had lunch with old friend today, talking about works and friends, and somehow want to write about ‘friends’, just because i think this is somehow funny and I want to remember it.
With my recent found of arguably ADD, I often forget things easily…but I don’t want to forget about this, so one day, when we all become old, I can read it again and laugh.
anyway.
recently one of my male friends finally got girlfriend. we the female friends were becoming curious georgina about this new girl.
so finally i had a chance to meet her for the first time.
me, being kaypoh agreed to join my friends in a mall which had its first time midnite sale, so it was a scary mad crowd and bad traffic at the night. and I met her.
my first impressions were : she looked shy and quiet, and looked young. but then it’s because I always feel old. 
i thought she was kinda shocked and a bid upset when I frankly told them ( my friend and his gf ) that i just went there just because i was really curious to see her.
and then, i also ‘attack’ her with interviews, in ‘i know i just meet you but i just want to know everything’ manner. hehee. I was proud of myself that moment, attacking a little bird like that! 
1st meeting : indifferent.
then I met her again on my bbq birthday party at my place.
I was busy with the party, I didn’t speak much with her nor with my friend. I just noticed that I really didn’t know that my friend can be so mushy mushy like that.
some one who talks more than us, the girls. someone who is the youngest in our group, and so we always treat him like a little boy. because he whines a lot.
she was still quiet and shy. maybe she was scared to us, the old ladies. hahaha.
so 2nd meeting : still indifferent.
2 weeks after we met again. this time we had a date, we went to cinema to catch Transformers 2 – which i didn’t really like, i fell asleep too many times, and I totally like the 1st one.
we snapped few pictures together via my blackberry.
nothing special and I didn’t have more opinions about her. I just felt slightly didn’t like her, dunno why, and I kept remember that I used to like the other girl he ever introduced to me at the first meeting, and I kinda disappointed he didn’t end up with her.
then the story begun.
I uploaded our pictures to Facebook, and while I didn’t have her account in my friends’ list, I tagged my friend on the pictures.
He commented the next day, asked for the tags’ reason. then my female friends – who was also on the picture and have befriended with her in Facebook – tagged this girlfriend.
The girlfriend then added me as her friend.
Then she commented on the pictures.
Then I got to know more about her ‘cute’ attitudes.
I, known for my frank and sometimes harsh way to talk, hates cutie wannabes.
But, I felt nothing with her. really. I was thinking that this girl is not worth to be bothered. and she’s my good friend’s girlfriend and I don’t want to mess with her.
but she was going forward with her comments, and later her boyfriend joined, and they made ’scene’ in my picture’s comments section.
I was a little bit provoked at first, especially when she suddenly claimed that she is his wife.
it’s ridiculous. and funny. and annoying. because usually only teenager couples did such thing.
she even wrote that she was assuming I got angry/jealous/sad reading their lovey dovey comments.
i know maybe i was exaggerated about that particular comment, but i wasn’t angry at all.
i found her amusing. i mean she’s not that young. i know a lot younger girls and they don’t act like her.
i just felt that for someone I just met 3 times she’s really brave commenting at me.
then my female friend messaged me, ” I don’t like her. I don’t like how she replied you. we should not reply her comments anymore. i think she’s impolite to you.”
I was surprised with her reaction, because that was something I would do in the past.
I was surprised with my own calmness and how I didn’t really affected with those comments.
When we had lunch today, she was bringing up this subject again.
She recently feels disappointed with my friend, and somehow thinks that his girlfriend contributes to his recent weird attitudes.
this matter keeps in my mind today.
somehow I feel that they won’t last long. I don’t say they don’t deserve each other, i’m not in any position to say that anyway.
my suggestion, “Girl, you need to grow up. and learn some respect to seniors.”
edit to add links :
have you know about oh crap, my parents joined facebook?
there is also a Lamebook! and it’s hilarious!!!!!!!
